my husband has anxiety issues and i need him to care for me cos i have got dysthymia. I am upset because i need someone there for me and i don't have one. It may seem selfish, but i am deeply upset about it. I expected my marriage to be peachy and lovely but it's turning out to be a disaster. Maybe it's me? Maybe it's him? Maybe it's a rough patch? I NEED HIM TO GET WELL.